In the world today, we have more marriages breaking every day than those which are succeeding. The question is, in the midst of these moral collapses, how do you make your marriage successful? Is it possible to have a successful marriage in this modern world? What then are some of the strong pillars for any successful marriage? Here are some pillars for a strong and successful marriage.
1. The Pillar of Unconditional Love
Love is one of the strongest pillars of marriage. There are two kinds of Love in marriage Emotional and unconditional. Emotional love is very unpredictable because it depends on feeling, whereas unconditional love goes beyond feelings. Many marriages built on Emotional Love are bound to fail the test of time.
Unconditional love is one of a strong pillar in any successful marriage. Unconditional love will help spouses to be patient with each other. Unconditional Love provides an environment of safety. Love is a catalyst for intimacy in marriage. Love holds together the marriage and a family. It helps the marriages go through all kinds of trials and test of time. Unconditional love is the glue which will keep any successful marriage.
2. The Pillar of Commitment
Successful marriages are built on commitment. Many have said marriage is built on a covenant relationship, which is very true. However, we have seen many breaking the marriage covenant and we are left to wonder what went wrong. Covenant in Marriage is an agreement between the two spouses the Male and female, while Commitment is the Cement and/or the glue of any Marriage Covenant.
For the covenant to last, then we need commitment. Commitment helps one to stand and defend the marriage covenant. Therefore Commitment in Marriage is the secret of any lasting Marriage Commitment to one another will make the marriage, to last and go beyond the test of time. Spouses in Marriage MUST decide to be committed to each other and committed to make their marriage successful.
3. The Pillar of Trust
Trust is another strong pillar of any Successful Marriage. It is the bedrock and the foundation of any successful Marriage. Marriage cannot be built and sustained without trust. Trust is very critical in marriage. Trust is earned but also is given. It considerable time to build and earn trust, but even so, it can be easily broken and lost. Trust can be given and/or Credited.
When one decides to Trust their spouse, even when they are not trustworthy, with time, the person given trust, will become trustworthy. In much successful Marriage, you will find that each spouse has decided to trust one another. Without Trust marriages are easily broken and when one lose trust it’s hard to restore it. It is possible to create a trustworthy environment in your marriage and begin to succeed.
4. The Pillar of Respect
Another strong pillar of a successful marriage is respect. It is said that wives need to respect their husband, which is absolutely true, however, the kind of respect, successful marriage have goes beyond just a wife respecting the husband. It starts with each one respecting each other, in the sense that no one can decide to be unfaithful to the other.
Many who are unfaithful they don’t respect themselves or their partner.This kind of respect makes the spouse to keep themselves pure in the marriage. It helps them to be faithful and honest with each other. It makes each spouse be secure with each other. When one respects himself or herself, it will result in being respected by others. Respect is very instrumental and critical in having a successful marriage.
Conclusion In the midst of this moral collapse, we can build successful marriages. When we use these four strong pillars in building our marriages then we will
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